In this blog, Institute
of vedic astrology is writing some reasons why an arranged marriage is successful
as compared to a love marriage. Before we hop on to the topic, let discuss what
is Marriage?
Marriage is a
beautiful journey of two individuals who are unknown & after tying the knot,
they would sail in the same boat and be considered to be united for the rest of
their lives. Marriage is supposed to be
an essential ritual to be followed by
every individual. In an Arranged Marriage, partners are chosen by the family,
while in case of Love Marriage, individuals want
their own partners.
Marriage is all
about fine-tuning with each other’s imperfect personalities. This ride would
not be so comfortable for the individuals
to tackle since they both are new at their new responsibilities. Marriage seems
lovely when there are two unlike poles in
the relationship. Yes, as per the Magnetic Law “Unlike Poles attract each other
& Similar Poles repel”.
Implement the
same law in real life, yes! We found that
Magnetic Law is not just applicable to the Magnetic field but in too many other
scenarios as well, one such situation is Marriage. The post Marriage journey is lovely when you get to find two different
personalities helping and mixing with each other. The same shall be observed in
their families, which makes their married life to be blissful.
Now let’s
understand How Arranged Marriage is more
successful than Love Marriage?
Arranged Marriage -
• Arranged
Marriage is thriving since the entire family is involved in the process to
approve a match for an individual. “Family” includes
members of all age categories who use their ideas and experience, to search for
a perfect match.
• Families involved in an arranged marriage evaluate each
other and marriages happen only when the two families are compatible with each
other.
• Because there
is involvement of more people, there is less chance of conflict between the
couple, and even if there is a conflict, it will be conclusively resolved and mitigated.
• Involvement of families makes a lot of difference
since the couples are new to married life. They both make mistakes which are corrected
by their elders.
• In Arranged
Marriage, the couple gets a platform to learn about how to manage responsibilities,
how to assess the future complexities of life that may arise, under the
supervision of the parents.
• When the
entire family is involved in nurturing the newly blossoming relationship, there
is definitely less pressure on the couple.
Love Marriage
• Both
individuals know each other already and mutually decided to be in an
uninterrupted relation.
• The couple
holds the responsibility of their choice, and
the blame in future lies only on the couple and no one else.
• The couple is
new to the relationship, and families get involved with each other after
marriage. Compatibility of the families is also accountable for the broken love
marriage.
• In Love
Marriage, usually, the couple gets to see different caste, religion, cultures, and
rituals to be followed. These are the few areas where there is a compatibility issue with the family. Slowly the
differences arise between the couple too.
Closing Thoughts
As per the
statistics, 74% of young Indians prefer Arranged Marriage. My firm belief
is- current generation should adhere to Arranged Marriages rather getting
involved in Love Marriages. Though Love seems wonderful
when the couple alone is involved, when Love takes the name of “Love Marriage”
there comes the family involvement too. Here is when the couple needs to be
more cautious about the family compatibility. Love or Arranged, marriages get
successful only when the families are happy too, and that situation comes when there is good compatibility between families too.
Therefore, this problem is solved as the proposals come vetted.
Vedic Astrology
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