Why Arranged Marriages are more Successful than a Love Marriages?

In this blog, Institute of vedic astrology is writing some reasons why an arranged marriage is successful as compared to a love marriage. Before we hop on to the topic, let discuss what is Marriage?

Marriage is a beautiful journey of two individuals who are unknown & after tying the knot, they would sail in the same boat and be considered to be united for the rest of their lives. Marriage is supposed to be an essential ritual to be followed by every individual. In an Arranged Marriage, partners are chosen by the family, while in case of Love Marriage, individuals want their own partners. 

Marriage is all about fine-tuning with each other’s imperfect personalities. This ride would not be so comfortable for the individuals to tackle since they both are new at their new responsibilities. Marriage seems lovely when there are two unlike poles in the relationship. Yes, as per the Magnetic Law “Unlike Poles attract each other & Similar Poles repel”. 

Implement the same law in real life, yes! We found that Magnetic Law is not just applicable to the Magnetic field but in too many other scenarios as well, one such situation is Marriage. The post Marriage journey is lovely when you get to find two different personalities helping and mixing with each other. The same shall be observed in their families, which makes their married life to be blissful.

Now let’s understand How Arranged Marriage is more successful than Love Marriage?

Arranged Marriage -

• Arranged Marriage is thriving since the entire family is involved in the process to approve a match for an individual. “Family” includes members of all age categories who use their ideas and experience, to search for a perfect match.

• Families involved in an arranged marriage evaluate each other and marriages happen only when the two families are compatible with each other.

• Because there is involvement of more people, there is less chance of conflict between the couple, and even if there is a conflict, it will be conclusively resolved and mitigated.

• Involvement of families makes a lot of difference since the couples are new to married life. They both make mistakes which are corrected by their elders.

• In Arranged Marriage, the couple gets a platform to learn about how to manage responsibilities, how to assess the future complexities of life that may arise, under the supervision of the parents.

• When the entire family is involved in nurturing the newly blossoming relationship, there is definitely less pressure on the couple.

 Love Marriage

• Both individuals know each other already and mutually decided to be in an uninterrupted relation.

• The couple holds the responsibility of their choice, and the blame in future lies only on the couple and no one else.

• The couple is new to the relationship, and families get involved with each other after marriage. Compatibility of the families is also accountable for the broken love marriage.

• In Love Marriage, usually, the couple gets to see different caste, religion, cultures, and rituals to be followed. These are the few areas where there is a compatibility issue with the family. Slowly the differences arise between the couple too.

Closing Thoughts

As per the statistics, 74% of young Indians prefer Arranged Marriage. My firm belief is- current generation should adhere to Arranged Marriages rather getting involved in Love Marriages. Though Love seems wonderful when the couple alone is involved, when Love takes the name of “Love Marriage” there comes the family involvement too. Here is when the couple needs to be more cautious about the family compatibility. Love or Arranged, marriages get successful only when the families are happy too, and that situation comes when there is good compatibility between families too. Therefore, this problem is solved as the proposals come vetted.

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The Remedy of Manglik Dosha, Be an Expert of Astrology!

There are various customs and traditions followed by Hindu religion. Astronomy is one of the oldest practices in which a majority of the Hindus believe. Various prominent aspects of life like birth, marriage, career, etc. are interpreted by Astronomy. Astronomy is the basic Vedic science based on the calculations of the planetary positions. This theory believes that every single living or non-living thing is impacted by the position of the planets of our solar system. Mainly, the calculations are based on the birth-time and location of the person. These calculations are noted down in the form of a written document that is called Horoscope.

For almost all Hindus, Horoscope plays a vital role, primarily, at the time of marriage. The Horoscope of both aspirants is matched in order to calculate their competency.

As stated above, Horoscope Matching has been predominantly used for matchmaking. The Horoscope preparation also monitors the Manglik Dosha. As per Hindu Astrology, Mangal Dosha occurs when an astrological combination of the planetary position of Mars (Mangal) is in the 1st, 2nd, 4th,7th, 8th and 12th house of the ascendant chart. The birth of any person who has Mars in this house as per the ascendant chart is a Manglik.

As the Mars planet (red planet) is dedicated to the God of war, all the essential qualities related to the war is presumed in the person with Manglik Dosha. As the impact of this planet is supposed to be more on the person with the Manglik Chart, a person with this condition in the Horoscope is considered unfavourable for marriage with a person having an ordinary Horoscope. 

There is a belief that if the marriage of non-manglik person is done with a manglik, it would not be auspicious and would be highly risky and can eventually lead to situations such as disharmony, discomfort and the stressed relationship among the couple. This is due to the fiery nature of the manglik person. 

Every parent wants that the married life of their children should be harmonious and peaceful. That’s the reason they are reluctant to a marriage proposal from a person with manglik horoscope.

Another reason for the failure in love relationship is that a manglik person is not favoured by the parents of the other person, without any Manglik dosha. They don’t approve of the marriage proposal at all! This situation is aptly described in the movie, Lage Raho Munnabhai. 

The remedy of the marriage-related problem of manglik person is that they need to find a person with manglik dosha. It is a tedious task indeed!

But what if a person with manglik horoscope wants to marry the person without manglik dosha even after above explanation? Are there remedial rituals available to diffuse the negative consequences of mangal dosha? The answer is YES! The ceremony of Kumbha vivah should be performed in which the manglik person marries with a banana tree, a peepul tree or a silver or gold idol of Lord Vishnu (for the bride only).

There are other astrological remedies available to reduce the adverse effect of Mangal Dosha. Astrological remedies include Poojas, Mantras, Gemstones, Charities and some fasts depending on the analysis of the study of Horoscope of the person.

As the educational qualifications of people are growing, beliefs in such aspect are also increasing. No one wants a delay in his/her marriage due to Manglik Dosha, and they are in search of the person who can give them a better direction regarding the rituals that have to be performed as per their Horoscope.

 The scope of a career in the field of astrology is enormous, but it should be backed by proper education and aspiration. If you are interested in astrology and searching for an ideal institute, your quest ends here! The famous place where you can learn A to Z about the Astrology! It’s Institute of Vedic Astrology, Indore.

 There are various courses available to study Vedic Astrology to have ample knowledge related to this field. Institute of Vedic Astrology offers 1 Year Post- Graduate Diploma Course in Vedic Astrology and 6 months Diploma Course in Vedic Astrology.